Happy Love ❤️. ....

Happy Love ❤️ = just not love....its HAPPY love. You are ready to face any thing in this world, if this one relationship is going well.

It is said that all of us are on a look out for that one PERFECT relationship. A Man on look out for that one 'Happy Woman' in his life and a Woman on look out for that 'one Man with whom she feels secured and protected'. - that one relationship can be anyone - mom,dad, daughter, son, wife, husband, inlaws, grandparents.

A lovely, couples story excerpts from Mahatria reading -

Lets call it as Rama/Sita's story and here how it goes:

Rama was from a not so well to do family, he grew up having just one shirt which he used to wash it every night and wear it in the morning. His dad and brother did the same. As they grew up, they just knew how to live with less. For Diwali, Rama's dad would ask him how much money he wants and Rama would ask for Rs.100 but would get only Rs50. This is the kind of love Rama grew up on, independent thinking, do your own stuff, less is more... etc.

Sita was from a well to do family. She grew up in a family where mom, dad and she would coordinate what to wear for a wedding - to either contrast or to match the life styles. Sita's dad made sure he was there for Sita in smallest of smallest decisions. For Diwali, her dad used to take her for shopping and get her what she wanted. This is the kind of love Sita grew up on, dependent, caring for small things, togetherness, consensus, etc.

Now Rama and Sita get married. The second day of their marriage Sita asks Rama to take her to her parents house. Rama agrees and asks her to get ready. She displays 3 set of clothes and is waiting for Rama to come inside the bedroom to help her select one. But Rama without knowing the expectations, just walks into the bed room changes his clothes and walks out. Sita is annoyed, chooses one dress to wear, gets dressed and leaves. Its Diwali time again, first Diwali after marriage for them, Rama comes home after work with some shopping bags. Sita excited to see this, asks him what was it. Rama says its his Diwali shopping. There goes her mood again, Rama unknowing of her expectations, thinks of it and he asks her how much money she needs for shopping. Well, Sita was never asked like this, her dad used to accompany for her shopping and she never worried about the cost. She slams the door and Rama is waiting outside requesting her to allow him inside, begging, apologizing etc. There were many such small instances that disturbed Rama and Sita's married life. small fights, small misunderstanding leading to bigger issues, there was purely compatibility issue, leading to divorce discussions later in the first year. But, they survived 23yrs of married life... amazing isn't it?.. 

The secret shared was that, they understood the different backgrounds they (Rama and Sita) came from, i.e., their understanding of love was different from each of their perspective and the expectations were different. 

Also, Rama started loving Sita as he would love his daughter (its unconditional and you wouldn't get upset with you daughter for such small things) and Sita started loving Rama as she would love her son (she wouldn't hate her son or want to get separated if he did something silly). 

Finding that balanced compatibility in a relationship is so key and this is what Rama /Sita did which lead to finding their Happy Love ❤️ .......

Experience Most and More .... 

Is this the STORY OF AGASTHYA or his parents?

Story excerpts from Mahatria reading....

Jothsna was in her early 30's when she had her first child, beautiful was that moment when she held her little Agasthya. She loved him to the core from that very moment, she promised to be the best mother ever. Both she and her husband as parents, ensured they be the best ever in their roles and ensured they gave better quality of life to Agasthya, than they ever had for themselves. Both with utmost dedication committed every moment of their life to Agasthya.

Little Agasthya grew up to be a 2yrs old, started becoming more and more fond of his parents and started understanding the utmost love that they shared for him. He would do anything to gain their appreciation. He started talking little little things, he started showing gestures of love. Parents Jothsna and her husband were on top of the world. Little Agasthya, as he grew up - he was a great student in his class, always first grades. He was great in sports, always medals. He was first in his high school, he went up to do higher studies, made it big, always was a star in his parents eyes. Parents were always on 'top of the world' because of Agasthya's success. Agasthya in the process, for his studies and career, he had gone far away from his parents, missed them dearly all the time.

He wanted to ensure he settles down fast in his life and give that same love / affection 10 folds as his parents gave him while he was growing up. Agasthya is now married and has a little Agasthya, he is on top of his world and sharing this news with his parents was the ultimate moment for him. He wants his parents to come and stay with him, and wants to ensure he does 10 folds to his parents to share his happiness and success of life. The parents, Jothsna and her husband, are on top of the world to stay close to their only Agasthya.

But, in this entire process in their life, Jothsna and her husband had forgotten one important thing - importance of health when required. They had neglected so much that their body is not permitting them to accept the invitation from their only son, Agasthya. Their body is not responding to the required travel, they are unable to enjoy their little one's success. This is hurting Agasthya a lot because he loves his parents and wants to do so much for them, he wants them to be part of his success. But he is helpless, at the least he can do is to provide good health care and that's about it.

Now, had it been that - Jothsna and her husband had taken good care of their health in the process of bringing up Agasthya, they could have stood by their beloved Agasthya throughout his life's success.

"What is the point if your body doesn't permit you to be with your loved ones? "

If you love your family, you will not be an old-age nuisance to your family. You alone have complete CONTROL over your health, it's in your hands to take good care of your body or not. You are the inspiration to your child to adapt to a life style that you show you lead.

You become the living inspiration to the little world around you.

"Abusing the GIFT is abusing the GIVER. Cherishing the GIFT is cherishing the GIVER" (human body is the ultimate gift from the supreme, cherish it!)

Happy Life!!!

WHO AM I....???

aM i YoUng or aM i Old? 

I am just a soul.... 

aM i BriGht or aM i DuMb?

I am just a learner....

aM i FlAshY or aM i SLopPy?

I am just a human

aM i BrAvE or aM i NeRvOuS?

I am just stating facts

penned: self